Minimizing

Minimizing

There seems to be a trend among many of the trailblazers out there . . . it’s called minimizing. It seems like everyone who finally decides they’re going to just go after their dreams no matter what those around them say, ultimately ends up at the point of realizing ‘stuff’ just gets in the way.

Now, that’s not to say one can’t be prosperous or one can’t buy ‘stuff’ – it simply means sometimes the stuff cluttering your space is no longer useful. And when you change your whole ideal for living, some things often simply have to go. That stuff no longer serves a purpose for you or perhaps if you’re honest, it never did serve a purpose. (Well, it’s only purpose, maybe, was to stroke the ego or “keep up with the Joneses.”)

Anyway, it also means that you think twice (or even three times) about buying something new. Instead of just buying it because you want it or whatever, you begin to examine the why behind it – “Why do I want this? Do I really need it?” You know what I’ve found is very helpful? Put it back and think about it for a day or two – you might (usually will) ultimately decide you DON’T want nor need it and your dreams will thank you for not bringing it home.

Over the past week or so, I’ve begun cleaning out closets, dressers, boxes of old stuff and have a whole pile of things my family no longer needs that I’ve offered to local folks on freecycle. (Freecycle is a free community group where people can post things they want to give away. There’s probably a chapter near you if you’d like to sign up. I highly recommend it!) We also were given a newer stove over the weekend and our old stove is on it’s way to a new home as well.

In addition to that, this minimizing thing has prompted some much needed repairs to things we DO need to keep – like the bathroom sink, for example. It’s been clogged and slow draining for a while. We tried to fix it a month or so ago and nothing worked. So, this weekend, we had a friend who does remodeling and general handyman type stuff come help us out with it. He also did a tune up and fixed a leaking coolant hose on my van as well as helped us pick up the new stove.

I don’t necessarily think minimizing your life or your stuff is a requirement for being a trailblazer but I would certainly encourage you to get real with yourself and decide whether or not you TRULY need all of the stuff you currently own. If you’re anything like me, I’d venture to guess the answer is you don’t. And if you do find you have too much stuff, I encourage you to give it away if at all possible instead of selling it. Paying it Forward is a great way to boost your own self-confidence and feel like you’re making a difference in the world. It’s those good feelings that create the good vibes that help keep things in flow, too, so make giving things away and doing small acts of kindness a habit.

If you can’t bear to give something away, go ahead and sell it and then maybe donate a portion of the proceeds to a charity or your local food bank, school, library or something like that. Non-profit groups can often use extra funds or supplies. And again, you create a happy feeling all around you and that allows the Universe to conspire on your behalf in making your dreams come true.

So, as you go about your week, ask yourself “Will minimizing my stuff help me achieve my goals?” And if you answer yes to that question, next ask yourself “How can I minimize my life/stuff?”

Aren’t your dreams worth it? ;-)

Until next time . . . keep blazin’!

School . . . and books!

School . . . and books!

Thankfully, it seems school went well for everyone on the first day! Getting everyone TO and FROM, though, was a nightmare.

Prior to this year, we had kids at 2 different schools. That wasn’t too bad. But this year with the 12 year old in middle school, I’ve got kids at 3 separate schools – a high school junior where school starts at 7:45 but she has to be on the bus at 6:40 because our transportation department is ridiculous (plus she has to transfer busses at the other high school); a 6th grade middle schooler who starts at 8:15 and the bus arrives at 7:45 to pick him up; and 2 in elementary school who have to be on the bus at 8:50, transfer busses at one of the other elementary schools and finally arrive at school at 9:30, which is a full 10 minutes late.

It was very nice having a quiet house to myself, though! Kinda makes up for the chaos of busses and transfers and bell schedules. Just don’t get me started on making high schoolers be at school so friggin’ early! Seriously. Do not get me started. My mom and I already had this conversation once today. ;-)

Oh – plus it had been raining all day. Rain, on the first day of school. Totally sucks.

But you know what’s really, really, really cool?? Remember one of the blogs I told you about in my last “Around the web” post called Advanced Riskology? Well, Tyler, the writer over there, had a giveaway to win one of Chris Guillebeau’s (from another of the blogs I posted in that list) new book “The Art of Non-Conformity – Set Your Own Rules, Live the Life You Want and Change the World” . . . and I WON A COPY! Yahoo! I’m so excited!!

And thank you, again, Tyler! Even though you pulled my name randomly, you still are the one who got a copy of the book and the one who is sending that copy to me. ;-) So, thanks a bunch.

That’s all for now. I have to go play the logistical nightmare of transportation to 3 schools again this morning. Oh joy . . .

Until next time .  . . keep blazin’!

Who rules your empire?

Who rules your empire?

I will be the first to admit building a life of trailblazing proportions isn’t easy. It’s bound to make your palms sweaty, your heart beat faster, your mind work overtime thinking of all the worse case scenarios that could happen (but probably won’t, by the way).

But you know what? Fear isn’t a bad thing . . . unless you let it be king and rule your empire.

While fear might be your biggest problem to overcome, it’s not worth letting it stop you. It doesn’t necessarily mean being fearless . . . instead it means, work through the fear and just go for it anyway.

One thing I’ve learned is that if I can just push through the fear and take a leap into the unknown, the net will appear to catch me. When I come out on the other side of that fear, I feel like a champion – like I rule my world. And that’s a good feeling that will help propel me further forward.

Fear doesn’t have to rule you. And neither do other people. You don’t have to lead your life based on other people’s expectations.

Let me tell you something – regret comes not from what we’ve tried, but from what we haven’t. It’s because we tried and gave up instead of trying one more time. When you fall down, get back up and try again.

The bottom line is . . . .

Don’t just deal with life – make life deal with you.

Until next time . . . keep blazin’.

Blazin’ a trail

Blazin’ a trail

You know what I want to do?

Wait . . . before I tell you, let me say something else first . . .

I am getting so excited! Everywhere I look lately, my friends and online acquaintances are really beginning to take some big steps in their own lives. And the more I see that and begin taking big steps in my own life, the more excited I get. It’s so fun to watch!

Ok, so, now that we have that out of the way . . . LOL . . . what was I going to say?

Oh right – you know what I want to do?

Be bold! Live life out loud! Take risks! Shout from the rooftops! Push the envelope! Go out on a limb! Break all the rules! Blaze a new trial!

And that’s what we’re doing, right? Trailblazing! Living life at full speed! Creating a life on fire!

I love it! And I’m so glad you’re along for the ride.

Take some time today and connect with Spirit (aka God, the Universe, Goddess – whatever you wish to call the Creator). Just relax, pray and seek some quiet space to connect. Ground yourself in that love.

Then tomorrow, get back to setting the world on fire! ;-) Make a list tonight before you go to bed with 3 things you WILL do this week to move you closer to your dreams and intentions. And if you feel like it, tell me what your 3 things are in the comments. I’d love to hear them so I can help cheer you on!

Until next time . . . keep blazin’.

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